While all relationships have challenges, the dishonest or abusive actions of other people can never be love, which is expressed only positively. Being silent about unloving behavior is not how to care for someone, or ourselves. My 9-page guide will teach you four steps for setting boundaries that will help you have healthy relationships:

• Define acceptable behavior
• Accept that doing nothing about unloving behavior is condoning it
• Calmly and clearly express your feelings
• Be comfortable with not being popular