My cousin, Kathy, was tragically killed in an automobile accident when she was 29 years old. It was a horrible time in all of our lives. But to honor my cousin’s memory I don’t focus on the negative.

What I remember about Kathy is how much she loved sailing. Whenever I see a sail boat I get a warm feeling in my heart. It’s like she is saying hello.

I believe the best way to honor our loved ones who are gone is to think of them warmly with love.